Tuesday, May 06, 2008

Pay Me

Life sometimes crack jokes, and my advice to people when they found that Life has cracked a joke on you, just laugh it off and continue with life lah =)

Yesterday, when I came back, I came across this song. This song resonates in me so I decide to share it with readers. Song title is "I Finally Found Someone" sang by Barbara Streisand & Bryan Adams. This song came at the appropriate time when my good friend decided to break this impt news to me, and that he is getting married. So good friend, would like to dedicate this song to you and your future wife. Really happy for you'll. And yes, appreciate greatly that I am the first few people to know, although I miss the chance to be the first. (Haha, me Singaporean mah! Kiasu! Haha!)



Ok the main task is done. Next comes the topic of the blog. Any idea what is the cheapest way to make someone happy? Well I personally think it is to pay someone a compliment. Of course one must pay a compliment that is true to his/her heart otherwise people will think that he/she is a hypocrite, so yes there is an art of paying compliment. Paying compliment 'correctly' will make one very popular, because people like to be around you, because they are comfortable, in fact happy when they are around you. It also foster relationship as well.

As we all know, if the relationship is stronger, it is easier to get help when you need one. All because you bother to take notice of the goodness of people and make known to his/her that he has done well.

Haha, why I was saying this is because I forgot to pay someone a compliment =P. Very bad of me. It makes me contemplate about paying compliments and its implications. Haha! When I contemplate about it, I finally realise that I "gave up" a chance to make someone happy and in terms the following chain of people whom she is going to spread her happiness to. Well, have a colleague who recently went to do her hair up and when she came back, she really look very beautiful. I guess too beautiful, that is why I forgot to pay her a compliment. Until when I was going back home, then I realise I forgot to pay the compliment but alas she is going for course and will not be around for the next few days. I guess would be quite strange to pay her a compliment about her when she come back next week.

Why not make it a habit to pay someone a compliment? Be quick about it though because the window of opportunity to pay someone a compliment closes fast. Go ahead, make someone day. Don't worries if people give u a strange look, I am sure at least when you have paid a compliment that is true to your heart, you will feel happy. At least don't lose out right? Haha!

Cheers!

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